Transition to Middle School Tips
Build on Past Success and Achievements, Schedule a Summer Tour
Celebrate, make a break, do homework. Tips for helping your child focus on effort and achievement during the transition.
Continuous effort - not strength or intelligence - is the key to unlocking our potential.
~Liane Cordes
Are you feeling caught between the excitement that comes from finishing the elementary school years and the anxiety of starting middle school next fall? Resist the temptation to join the middle school mayhem until you have officially celebrated your child’s achievements over the past year.
Here’s a few ways to recognize your child’s effort and achievements while simultaneously propelling you both into an incredible summer and a motivating start to school next fall.
Celebrate Summer. Plan ahead for the last day of school. How does your child like to celebrate success? Grandiose parties and lavish gifts may not mean as much as a family dinner at his favorite restaurant. Keep it simple but special.
Make a Clean Break. Clear the calendar for a few days after school ends. Even a free day or two signifies a defined break between the end of school and what’s next. Both you and your child deserve to have some time to unwind before launching into summer. When summer activities begin to overlap with school routines kids, in particular, don’t have an opportunity re-energize for what’s next.
Share Success. Ask your child what was most challenging about the past year.
- Praise her efforts to overcome and succeed amidst these challenges.
- Remind her of the challenging moments you remember. Kids have a tendency to forget some of their greatest challenges and subsequent achievements.
Make the Connection. Use your challenges and achievements conversation to begin talking about the coming year.
- Emphasize the effort and skills your child used to succeed and how he might use these same skills to overcome new challenges. The connection between effort and achievement will become more important in middle school as your child seeks greater independence.
Do Your Homework. For the past nine months your child completed weekly homework assignments. Now it’s your turn.
- Start by calling your child’s middle school to inquire about orientation dates.
- Schedule these dates on a calendar along with any other activities that coincide with these dates.
- Build your summer reading list with few books and articles about middle school life. The time and effort you spend now will result in greater piece of mind next fall.
Making the transition to middle school will be one of the most exciting times in your child’s life. With your support and an adequate amount of forethought, middle school will be a seamless transition from an amazing summer.
Read more about planning for middle school here.
